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BEING A PROSPERITY MAGNET

By Carol Rios

What is prosperity? It is everything that brings harmony and peace into your life. It brings Love, Joy and happiness which includes financial security and balance. The first thing to do to become a prosperity magnet is to understand that you are already a prosperity magnet. You are completely capable of attracting all the prosperity that is manifested in this world. You, however, you may not be magnetized to attracting what you want but more of what you do not want because you are using your magnetic powers to either repel what you want, or you are using them to attract the opposite unconsciously.

Let us define prosperity to begin with. People around the world have different ideas as to what they believe is prosperity. Just having an over abundance of money is what most think is prosperity. Some people think that having enough to live and thrive and be happy is prosperity. You can have money and be miserable as most of us have heard and seen people in public eye for instance, struggle with various problems. If you are addicted to the belief in unhealthy relationships, you may be de-magnetized for prospering in happy relationships you are probably attracting the kind of experiences that will confirm to you , "I was right, I cannot trust men or women", or "if I don't protect myself of this or that, this person will hurt me" . What ultimately occurs is the very thing you are afraid of. Your fear manifests and you confirm to yourself more protection is needed, more distrust. You can have money and still be miserable because your life is not balanced. Real true prosperity is having a fulfilling life where you are free. Freedom comes from losing fear of what may come. Freedom comes from inside. Therefore, real prosperity is being able to do the kind of things that make you happy and get paid for it. To feel secure is prosperity while still having all that you need or desire for health and happiness.

HOW do you get there?

Do you consider yourself a good person? Being a good person does not entail being a door mat for others to step all over you. You cannot have prosperity, if you are being used or abused by anyone. Not even yourself. Negative beliefs about yourself will cause you to behave destructively and cause you to attract abusive behavior from others. Do you have destructive behavior? If so, you are going to demagnetize the prosperity of self esteem and self honor. This is so important for every facet of life, even healing from illness. Those with low self esteem heal slower than persons with healthy self esteem. How can you have time to live a happy life when energy is being spent on maintenance and survival? There has to be a calm peaceful place where you can feel that your world is safe and you are safe, secure and loved. In addition, the problems of others are not yours to carry. Even if others around you have suffered greatly, failed at creating their happiness and prosperity, you need to realize that has nothing to do with you. We are all on our own separate paths. We all have our own Divine destiny to fulfill. While it is right and proper to be empathetic and compassionate to those around you, it is inappropriate to become so wrapped up in the hardships or failures of others that you become unable to manifest your own highest good.

Forgive the past. Forgiveness is not allowing someone get with hurting you. Most people think that forgiveness means you are going to have to forget what happened. Not at all. It means you are no longer going to allow what happened to affect you and steal your power in the now. It means you are going to free yourself once and for all from that thing. Forgiveness is not for them, it is for you! You cannot forgive so the energy that it takes to keep that hurt is the same energy that creates more of the same feelings to stay with you day after day creating more fears and more unfavorable experiences.

Anger and hate weigh you down physically, emotionally, and spiritually. Therefore it is important to forgive yourself most of all for anything that you have done wrong and to forgive anyone who has wronged or injured you. In doing so, you will not be weighed down by negative emotions and you will have more energy to focus on manifesting your goals.

3. Let go of the past. No matter what has happened to you in the past (in business or in love relationships) you need to imagine that you can wipe the slate clean and start fresh. Living in the past and holding on to old failures will cripple your ability to thrive. You should view the past as learning experiences from which you are now able to grow from.

4. Become a vessel of power. You can empower yourself in many ways. A few of these ways create health in your physical being by eating healthfully, exercising regularly, and avoiding toxic substances create health in your mind by consistently feeding yourself positive thoughts create health in your heart by letting love and happiness shine through you define and embrace your own spirituality. When your physical, emotional, and spiritual sides are all healthy and functioning as one well-maintained unit you will have the energy and power that you need to manifest your goals.

5. Identify what it is that you want. Do not focus on what you do not want for that will give you more of that. Your magnetic energy is controlled by your mind’s focus. Allow time for soul-searching that will enable you to identifying what life pursuits will totally fulfill you. It is important that you are truly excited by whatever it is that you are doing if you want to be successful and happy while doing it.

6 Visualization is a must. Visualize what it is that you want. Using your mind to see yourself totally fulfilled in both love and business concerns. Make it colorful and alive in your mind - Imagine exactly the kind of experience that you wish to live inside of. What you focus on expands in your world. Continue to focus on and clarify this picture each day. Make sure you allow room inside the picture for possibilities that can enhance your life that you are not yet consciously aware of yet.

7. To prime the mind you can begin writing down what you desire, beginning with the phrase: I am so happy and grateful now that_______________ has occurred and I feel ___ about it. Now I can ___ and ____”. You must begin speaking, thinking and acting as if it has already happened, because on some alternative level, it HAS. Set small goals at first that you can readily achieve that will lead to the fulfillment of your larger goals. Congratulate yourself each time you meet a small goal. Get inside the mind of a successful person. Act as if you know how to do what they would do in the same situation. Assume that your success is at its conclusion. It has already manifested and now you will consistently act in a way that creates your success.

8. Ask for help when you need it. This help could be from a friend, a business person, a teacher, from a spiritual realm, or even from your self. Often it is the case that others will be delighted to assist you. By asking for what you need, you open a door that allows others the pleasure of helping you and a window that enables you to obtain what it is that you need. If you are the type that feels that you have to do everything yourself and that it is inappropriate to ask others for help then you might want to take time and consider if these thoughts are serving you or harming you.

9. Like yourself and love yourself. If you want others to be drawn to you, you must feel good about yourself. You will only be able to truly love another when you are capable of loving yourself. Imagine that you have the ability to draw love and energy from the universe into the core of your being. Feel yourself filling up to the brim with this universal love and energy. Imagine that there is a dimmer switch inside of you that controls your own love and joy light and that you are now actively turning up your love and joy light a little bit brighter each day.

10. Take charge of your magnetism and charisma. As you turn up your own love and joy light your magnetism and charisma will automatically surface. You may utilize your magnetism and charisma to draw loving, helpful, and caring people into your life. Check your level of self esteem and self worth. How worthy of al this love and prosperity do you feel you really deserve? There may be feelings deep inside that you do not deserve to be so very happy. If not, then why not? Fill up your own well of love so you can share it with others. This means you must love yourself first before you can give it to others. How else can you give something if you do not possess it for yourself? That would be like a poor man writing a check to pay his bills with no money in the bank.

11. Create a state of mind in which you will only draw helpful, loving people into your life. Negative comments come from people who are expressing their fears. They may not intend to burden you with their fears; in fact, they most likely feel they are helping you. Project an energy field of light around you that prevents harmful people and elements from entering into your life or consciousness.

12. Begin to actively call love and prosperity into yourself. Get up each morning and call out to the universe, to God (or your higher power) to send prosperity and love your way. Each night take time to identify all your blessings and to give thanks for all the wonderful things that have come into your life. The more you focus on what you have to be grateful for now, the more of that you will get. Surprise yourself and don’t just take my word for it. Use this method letting go of reserving any tiny bit of resentments.

13. Have the wisdom to see that sometimes things come to you in an unexpected way. Develop the insight and vision to see what a blessing is truly and what is not. Trust your instincts. You possess all the tools; you simply want to use them to attract what you want instead of what you don’t want.

14 Take time to have fun, to laugh, to sing, to dance, and to make friends. If your friends do not help to get you through your darkest days, then you need new friends, or better yet, become your own best friend. You should already be the person whom you can rely upon first to bring answers. Do the research by going within and tapping into the power that is waiting for you to awaken to it. In the course of life you may have many friends and loved ones come and go but your inner self, your real friend will always be there for you. Love is all around you so appreciate that and know that you are secure, loved and prospering right now.

15. Love finds you worthy when you find yourself worthy. Love IS prosperity and love takes care of all that you need. Love is the opposite of fear and the two cannot occupy the same space. It is your choice which one you place in your mind and heart.

Carol Rios

The Art of Awareness LLC

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